Everyone has a story. Travelling with the train, you see so many different faces and cultures. Love it! You can feel some people looking others weirdly, but trying not to be obvious seen, a trying  to judge descriptively, if there is a such thing. I can see and feel pain in some of their faces, I can even feel some their heart beating, which is fast and for others’ slow.

Who are we to judge? A lady opposite me Korean I think the origin, beautiful lady  with a nice designed tattoo red rose  in her right hand. Round black eye glasses and a nice long dress black and white. I always admired the Asian culture. Next to her a blonde girl with beautiful blue eyes probably a student she is singing loudly. t seems that she is in pain and disappointed. How can I judge her for singing loudly, do we know what is bee through in her head or life?

Two guys entered the train, drunk and holding booze. Yes it’s not allowed, and you could feel the frustration of the rest of the people, but they are trying to be polite and say nothing. They are laughing, the smell is little bit annoying but they are harmless. Their faces are red and their eyes ready to pop out. Maybe these young men had a bad day or maybe not. Why do we must judge them. Few years ago I was wearing oversized clothes, because I was anorexic and I was feeling fat, note that I was 43 kgs weight. People did not know that, but instead of empathizing me they were judging me. They had no idea that I was literally fighting with myself for my survival.

Back to our train story. Then me wearing my shinning sparkling shoes, with a grey weird long skirt and my big round  grey hat. I wonder what they think of me. Probably they will think “from which era, did she arrived?”

We all have a story. Don’t allow others to write your own story. No one can feel what you are feeling. No one knows you better than you. They don’t have to accept you but they have to respect you. After living in so many countries, meeting so many different people, and yet lot of people still don’t understand me and my fashion style or my way of thinking, but you know what? I DON’T REALLY CARE! As long as I don’t offend anyone, well I haven’t embrace the naked fashion style yet.

Love your body, love your soul LOVE WHO YOU ARE. We all live once, at least let’s act as we feel like it. Who are they to judge you? Before you get stressed ask yourself, How their opinion will value and serve my life? If the answer is negative then don’t bother. If it’s positive, then think and get the positive message from their comment.

Sometimes they don’t judge us negatively but it is how we perceive it based on our true view of our self. Mirroring as we say. Let’s control our emotions, projections and mirror. A great performer must first perform to him/herself, that what all is matter the being out with people doesn’t really counts.

Thank you

Nadia

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