Have you ever had that day, where everything was going wrong? Like that song of Alanis Morissette “Ironic” or Merphy’s Law. Although, it might sound weird to you, It is all about controlling our emotions, of course we are human beings but if we don’t control our emotions.
Listen to this story, I was trying to park and was furious as I was in an argument of the phone with someone. Then the guy at the parking was yelling because I was delaying him.. from nothing actually but I guess he just wanted to get on my nerves or that’s how he knew to treat and talk.
I opened the window, and I gather all my calmness and said to him, “Please, talk with manners as I deserve because I am having very intense day and won’t be responsible for my actions if you continue. “Guys I was indeed calm, then after that he smiled apologized and said “Okay madam, when you finish I will be waiting at the exit gate”.
So, imagine now if I started screaming at him, what would have been the result? Tragic most probably hit each other, got sick and not be able to continue my work and his too. By managing our own emotions, we get more peace and the most important we get the result we want because all comes back to us.